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I’m a brat. I’m NOT HOOKING UP OR SEXTING. Trust is a big thing for me, and it takes a bit for me to trust someone. Although once I trust you I am the most reliable and loyal person you’ll know. I have a job. I’m stubborn and will talk back. I tend to over think and can get upset, I also can get clingy. But I’m also sarcastic and playful and I’m a tease and I’ll try and push all your buttons just to get a reaction. Because I love to get into trouble Also I am PLUS SIZED so if you don’t like it you can leave.
Female (23) San Diego, California
Looking for my Daddy (or Daddies) to be a good girl to (and an occasional brat ?) Want a 24/7 dynamic with someone I can wholly give myself to and build an amazing and beautiful connection with. I want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? Pretty big masochist. Haven't found my limit yet, and am looking for someone that can outstand me with impact play and others. I've never given before, all my partners get tired before I reach my limit ? I'd like to find that limit and push it, see just how far I can take it. Very interested in *** play. Would love for someone to push me to the max of what I can take and send me to a dissociative state or sub space (haven't gotten there yet) and love after care of course. Beat me until I can't take it anymore, and then love me and cuddle me and tell me how well I took it ? Ideally? I'd love to have two Daddies to cherish and love up on me. Whether that is by joining a couple or building up a thruple, doesn't matter. I like to be active in the community, go to munches, dungeons, and events. Looking for someone that wants to be part of the community with me. And always looking for subs. Would live to have a little boy of my own. New-ish to the world of kink, trying to continue to explore and meet people in the community. I've done quite a bit of exploring so far, but always looking for more. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Very big advocate of mental health and am particularly fascinated by the intersection of kink and psychology. Anything else, feel free to ask me ? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ?‍♀️ Soft limits: knife play, brat play/taming, bathroom control, *** play. Hard limits: anything to do with *** or vomit. Anything extremely ***ful or disfiguring. Owner/slave. Breeding, watersports, ***/***. Face slapping. Piercing play. Everything else is pretty much fair game. Got something specific in mind? Ask me. Things I particularly enjoy are bondage/suspension, E-stim, poly, impact play, anal play, double penetration, wax play, temperature play, and sensory play/deprivation. Interested in trying out my soft limits, they tend to fluctuate, as do my hard limits, lol. Updated my test March 2023 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner Ideally would love to find a couple of Daddies to be a little girl to. Wanna make my fantasy come true? Also open for a Daddy as my primary. Don't mind an open relationship and playing with others, but I want to be someone's Good Girl (and occasional Brat ?) open to Mommies too ? want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? And always looking for subs. New to the world of kink, trying to explore and meet people in the community. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ?? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Anything else, feel free to ask me ?? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner
Female (29) San Diego, California
I am a sunny and cheerful girl. I am an open and talkative person. I love and enjoy this life. I am open to this world with all its aspects. I will face all adversity with my head held high as temporary difficulties. I know how to be friends and respect those people who are close to me.
Female (42) San Diego, California
pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!
Female (23) San Diego, California
I am open and honest, I believe in lifelong 50relationship, I believe in 4true love and strong 5feelings such as respect and00 trust. 32Hope to share pictures with you 11so though | left my Information over here just because am not an on here. I think love should be present in the relationship between a manandawoman.
Female (44) San Diego, California
Looking for someone to share bits and pieces of my life with, understand and support me in my quest for growth and happiness.
Female (35) San Diego, California
I am very devoted, kind-hearted, sympathetic and always ready to help people. I am mature, down-to earth. I value every moment of my life due to my work. I am very positive too and I never lose my temper, by the way).
Female (45) San Diego, California
I am the kind of woman who believes that life is full of amazing moments and opportunities. I love exploring new places, whether it's cozy cafes in my city or distant countries. If you are looking for passionate and feminine company, you will definitely find it with me 😉 Give me a chance to show you what a real pleasure it can be to get to know me. I am an open girl and ready for real meetings, I always remain honest first of all to myself and to other people. Let's dance, kiss, unravel each other and for sure, immerse ourselves in the ocean of pleasure and passion ❤ I'm waiting for you to play this game of passion and desire with me, where there is no place for restraint and moderation
Female (47) San Diego, California
About me....I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. Its the mental mindfuck, the slight ***, it's how intensely erotic it is to be Owned by an intelligent and creative owner. How would you describe yourself ? I am looking for a submissive man that wants to experience more of the things that stimulate his mind as well as his body where getting inside his head makes him tingle all over knowing that his buttons are being pressed from the inside but the effect is what he is feeling on the outside making him fantasies more and more willing than ever. One where she simply lets go of his preconceived ideas on what a good slave should be and not be judged for the taboo things that his parents and society warned him that he shouldn’t indulge in like his love of cock being used and made to cum repeatedly.. If this is you then get back to me and lets discover just how far you can go into the dark side..
Female (36) San Diego, California
Hi! I’m finally at a place where I can start exploring this other side of me. I’m just a shy, sexually pent up female looking for a man who can own, degrade and guide me, as well as give me affection.
Female (30) San Diego, California
**_I'm a fashion designer and marketer ?✨. Creative and ambitious, I love turning ideas into style ?. Looking for a gentle man who appreciates passion and authenticity ❤️. Let's create something beautiful together!_**
Female (36) San Diego, California
Been on a journey to exploring my sexuality since ending an almost 10 year marriage earlier this year. I am now in a long-distance relationship with someone who is supportive of my journey. *Must be willing to be on camera (not only is it a kink of mine but also a request from the boyfriend)* Want to experience: FF ❤️ FFF ❤️ FMF *I have a local guy as well*
Female (30) San Diego, California
Demisexual and looking for genuine connection 💕 [Friends first ONLY] I have zero interest in cyberfun or long distance dynamics, but I’m always open to (platonic) friendship. With that said.. keep your dms respectful and have decorum or I might have to give you a reality check. 🐈‍💢 Interests: Foods Hiking Lifting weights Psychology Cosplay Anime/manga/webtoon Art Anything cute, creepy or both
Female (32) San Diego, California
hi everyone! I am pretty new to this, but just looking for a good and safe community to learn about these new things with and hoping to make some new friends!
Female (25) San Diego, California
Submissive looking for a confident Dominant to take the lead. I’m not sure where all my limits are yet, but I’m open to exploring and discovering new things together.
Female (28) San Diego, California
A ittle kinky- hoping to explore my sub side.
Female (48) San Diego, California
I’m complicated. but I can explain lol . no meets ups. only phone fun. just looking for someone hot to talk to and get wet for. no dates. I’m here to have fun and be goofy. I’d u can’t handle sarcasm, please don’t waist your time. I would really like to find someone who can meet me half way and make me feel good as I make u feel good. tired of one way relationships. friendship is a big deal for me.
Female (36) San Diego, California
I want to act out a cnc fantasy. More along the lines of groping and gentle ***. No extreme *** desired. Chat me if you're local and tell me where you want to find me? Bonus if you have a furry friend.
Female (36) San Diego, California
Queen of attitudes. Goddess of subs. Maven of ***. Married and monogamous, generous with scolding. I will probably ignore you until you show me the proper admiration and appreciation. Then I’ll dominate and humiliate you. Also, I have the prettiest feet you’ve ever had the luck to see.
Female (39) San Diego, California
bigger is always better and plastic makes perfect. you’re favorite pumped up plastic doll, no they’re not real and yes they’re getting bigger, much bigger. won’t you help them grow.
Female (28) San Diego, California
Hi! If you’re around, let’s do something fun!! Peace and love ✌️❤️🌈 Follow me :) IG•📸rhyenbow
Female (22) San Diego, California
I’m really into exploring fantasies… not just mine. I want to hear yours and make them come true. I definitely enjoy being treated like a princess outside the bedroom but in the bedroom is a bit of a different story. I enjoy being teased and the build up before anything rough is involved. I’m into AnR, praise kink, DD/lg, nipple play.
Female (29) San Diego, California
Happily married but the bedroom is dead. would be fun to meet someone who I can vibe with as friends with benefits to explore my more kinky side. I tend to enjoy being submissive. I’m bisexual so open to couples too.
Female (38) San Diego, California
* INFJ-T * Yes, i have an OF page but i will not be actively promoting it here * Divorced for over 10 years and parent to 3 adult *** * bipolar which means often depressed and hypersexual * Treat me like a person first I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ONS OR CASUAL SEX!!! If you are not looking for a friend or a long term relationship, please skip to the next profile.
Female (47) San Diego, California

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I am a sunny and cheerful girl. I am an open and talkative person. I love and enjoy this life. I am open to this world with all its aspects. I will face all adversity with my head held high as temporary difficulties. I know how to be friends and respect those people who are close to me.
Female (42) San Diego, California
I am open and honest, I believe in lifelong 50relationship, I believe in 4true love and strong 5feelings such as respect and00 trust. 32Hope to share pictures with you 11so though | left my Information over here just because am not an on here. I think love should be present in the relationship between a manandawoman.
Female (44) San Diego, California
I am very devoted, kind-hearted, sympathetic and always ready to help people. I am mature, down-to earth. I value every moment of my life due to my work. I am very positive too and I never lose my temper, by the way).
Female (45) San Diego, California
I am the kind of woman who believes that life is full of amazing moments and opportunities. I love exploring new places, whether it's cozy cafes in my city or distant countries. If you are looking for passionate and feminine company, you will definitely find it with me 😉 Give me a chance to show you what a real pleasure it can be to get to know me. I am an open girl and ready for real meetings, I always remain honest first of all to myself and to other people. Let's dance, kiss, unravel each other and for sure, immerse ourselves in the ocean of pleasure and passion ❤ I'm waiting for you to play this game of passion and desire with me, where there is no place for restraint and moderation
Female (47) San Diego, California
Looking for someone to share bits and pieces of my life with, understand and support me in my quest for growth and happiness.
Female (35) San Diego, California
**_I'm a fashion designer and marketer ?✨. Creative and ambitious, I love turning ideas into style ?. Looking for a gentle man who appreciates passion and authenticity ❤️. Let's create something beautiful together!_**
Female (36) San Diego, California
Hi! I’m finally at a place where I can start exploring this other side of me. I’m just a shy, sexually pent up female looking for a man who can own, degrade and guide me, as well as give me affection.
Female (30) San Diego, California
pronouns: he/she I can be shy. my partner calls me nerdy and I'm a college student. I'm poly! and kinky AF! My major is psychology too! I'm into a lot of hard-core things that can easily cross illegal territory if I ever acted on some of them. girls are preferred but guys are easier for me to talk to lol. point if your goth or alt in other ways!
Female (23) San Diego, California
Looking for my Daddy (or Daddies) to be a good girl to (and an occasional brat ?) Want a 24/7 dynamic with someone I can wholly give myself to and build an amazing and beautiful connection with. I want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? Pretty big masochist. Haven't found my limit yet, and am looking for someone that can outstand me with impact play and others. I've never given before, all my partners get tired before I reach my limit ? I'd like to find that limit and push it, see just how far I can take it. Very interested in *** play. Would love for someone to push me to the max of what I can take and send me to a dissociative state or sub space (haven't gotten there yet) and love after care of course. Beat me until I can't take it anymore, and then love me and cuddle me and tell me how well I took it ? Ideally? I'd love to have two Daddies to cherish and love up on me. Whether that is by joining a couple or building up a thruple, doesn't matter. I like to be active in the community, go to munches, dungeons, and events. Looking for someone that wants to be part of the community with me. And always looking for subs. Would live to have a little boy of my own. New-ish to the world of kink, trying to continue to explore and meet people in the community. I've done quite a bit of exploring so far, but always looking for more. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Very big advocate of mental health and am particularly fascinated by the intersection of kink and psychology. Anything else, feel free to ask me ? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ?‍♀️ Soft limits: knife play, brat play/taming, bathroom control, *** play. Hard limits: anything to do with *** or vomit. Anything extremely ***ful or disfiguring. Owner/slave. Breeding, watersports, ***/***. Face slapping. Piercing play. Everything else is pretty much fair game. Got something specific in mind? Ask me. Things I particularly enjoy are bondage/suspension, E-stim, poly, impact play, anal play, double penetration, wax play, temperature play, and sensory play/deprivation. Interested in trying out my soft limits, they tend to fluctuate, as do my hard limits, lol. Updated my test March 2023 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner Ideally would love to find a couple of Daddies to be a little girl to. Wanna make my fantasy come true? Also open for a Daddy as my primary. Don't mind an open relationship and playing with others, but I want to be someone's Good Girl (and occasional Brat ?) open to Mommies too ? want to be owned and cherished, bruised and praised, spanked and cuddled ? And always looking for subs. New to the world of kink, trying to explore and meet people in the community. Outside of the bedroom, I am a college student- probably will be forever ?? My hobbies include reading, writing, drawing/***ting. I've been playing around with film photography and want to learn how to develop them. I love to hike, but haven't gotten to do it in years. I have two cats, love driving manual cars, and love all things Gothic or atmospheric. Anything else, feel free to ask me ?? I'm really bad about getting on here, and never seem to get notifications. Feel free to message me and I'll eventually get back to you, anything else, I probably won't, so if you want to talk, send me a message. Looking to meet people, make friends, be a part of the community. If we seem to click, let's get coffee or something and see if we click in person. I like taking things slow, not going to randomly get a hotel room with someone I've never met ? sorry, not sorry ? == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Masochist 96% Rope bunny 94% Brat 87% Submissive 86% Boy/Girl 78% Switch 78% Experimentalist 74% Primal (Prey) 72% Non-monogamist 71% Ageplayer 69% Brat tamer 67% Rigger 63% Exhibitionist 63% Dominant 62% Sadist 59% Voyeur 41% Primal (Hunter) 32% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Pet 27% Daddy/Mommy 21% Degradee 21% Master/Mistress 20% Degrader 20% Owner
Female (29) San Diego, California
About me....I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. Its the mental mindfuck, the slight ***, it's how intensely erotic it is to be Owned by an intelligent and creative owner. How would you describe yourself ? I am looking for a submissive man that wants to experience more of the things that stimulate his mind as well as his body where getting inside his head makes him tingle all over knowing that his buttons are being pressed from the inside but the effect is what he is feeling on the outside making him fantasies more and more willing than ever. One where she simply lets go of his preconceived ideas on what a good slave should be and not be judged for the taboo things that his parents and society warned him that he shouldn’t indulge in like his love of cock being used and made to cum repeatedly.. If this is you then get back to me and lets discover just how far you can go into the dark side..
Female (36) San Diego, California
I’m a brat. I’m NOT HOOKING UP OR SEXTING. Trust is a big thing for me, and it takes a bit for me to trust someone. Although once I trust you I am the most reliable and loyal person you’ll know. I have a job. I’m stubborn and will talk back. I tend to over think and can get upset, I also can get clingy. But I’m also sarcastic and playful and I’m a tease and I’ll try and push all your buttons just to get a reaction. Because I love to get into trouble Also I am PLUS SIZED so if you don’t like it you can leave.
Female (23) San Diego, California
5"2 black 215 lbs born a women big tits normal size ass I'm looking for safe play, big cocks, and maybe soothing more serious if we hit it off. I have a few things that I enjoy but isn't a deal breaker if you or y'all don't enjoy it . pegging. whipping( I like to be the whipper).being eaten out. cuddles. I like to be dom or sub. if there is anything you are interested Im willing to try it.
Female (32) San Diego, California
I’m really into exploring fantasies… not just mine. I want to hear yours and make them come true. I definitely enjoy being treated like a princess outside the bedroom but in the bedroom is a bit of a different story. I enjoy being teased and the build up before anything rough is involved. I’m into AnR, praise kink, DD/lg, nipple play.
Female (29) San Diego, California
hi everyone! I am pretty new to this, but just looking for a good and safe community to learn about these new things with and hoping to make some new friends!
Female (25) San Diego, California
bigger is always better and plastic makes perfect. you’re favorite pumped up plastic doll, no they’re not real and yes they’re getting bigger, much bigger. won’t you help them grow.
Female (28) San Diego, California
* INFJ-T * Yes, i have an OF page but i will not be actively promoting it here * Divorced for over 10 years and parent to 3 adult *** * bipolar which means often depressed and hypersexual * Treat me like a person first I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ONS OR CASUAL SEX!!! If you are not looking for a friend or a long term relationship, please skip to the next profile.
Female (47) San Diego, California
Queen of attitudes. Goddess of subs. Maven of ***. Married and monogamous, generous with scolding. I will probably ignore you until you show me the proper admiration and appreciation. Then I’ll dominate and humiliate you. Also, I have the prettiest feet you’ve ever had the luck to see.
Female (39) San Diego, California
Confident and full of life, I’m someone who knows how to enjoy the little things—like a delicious meal (I’m always on the hunt for the next great bite). I value respect but appreciate people who can challenge me in the right ways. I’m happily married and here to develop meaningful friendships with people who bring good vibes and share a zest for life. If you’re up for great conversations and new connections, let’s chat!
Female (28) San Diego, California
I'm a creative and quirky individual. I'm into art, writing and witchy things. I work from home and live alone with my cat in Mission Valley. I'm looking for 2 bi guys who want to have some fun (possible long term) i love all kinds of guys but definitely like feminine ones. MMF and MFM
Female (38) San Diego, California
Bold, beautiful, and bossy—we’re a duo of businesswomen who know how to take charge. Dominatrixes with a flair for fun, we’re seeking devoted subs who know how to serve us in style. Playful, confident, and unapologetically in control. Want to learn your place? Snap us at @pinksegs to see if you’re worthy of submission.
Female (19) San Diego, California
Digital dom and findom. Experienced & referenced. Open to 1 more in person sub as well currently. Very selective for meet ups though.
Female (34) San Diego, California
Just a fun loving curvy girl thick in all the right places 😉 I have sub tendencies, and loooove to cuddle. I have dommed in the past, and am curious to explore my dom side more. I love to worshipped and adored🥰 My interest include travel and exploring new places, playing music, and video games. looking for new friends and connections
Female (29) San Diego, California
Submissive looking for a confident Dominant to take the lead. I’m not sure where all my limits are yet, but I’m open to exploring and discovering new things together.
Female (28) San Diego, California
Demisexual and looking for genuine connection 💕 [Friends first ONLY] I have zero interest in cyberfun or long distance dynamics, but I’m always open to (platonic) friendship. With that said.. keep your dms respectful and have decorum or I might have to give you a reality check. 🐈‍💢 Interests: Foods Hiking Lifting weights Psychology Cosplay Anime/manga/webtoon Art Anything cute, creepy or both
Female (32) San Diego, California

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